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Dating is Delightful

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You are probably wondering "where have all the Micro dates gone??"  I know your probably itching for some ideas.  Well the truth is, for the past two weeks I haven't done a single Micro date.  Why?  Because for the past two weeks Danny and I have gone on two real live dates-aka-out of the home with babysitters lined up.  It was wonderful, I have to admit.  It was time for a change of pace-if I had to do a Micro date every week, well I'd be fried and served on a platter-or something like that.  Micro dates are fun, but there is a great need to get out of the house-before 9pm-and enjoy some fresh air.  So this is what we did: Date 1 Checked out the Arts Quest Center at Bethlehem Steel Stacks: Date 2 Went to Thai Thai-a Thai restauant-duh.  Yummy food!  Also bought some new running sneakers and bought some ice cream. Sorry not many pictures-too busy enjoying ourselves...hope you are able to get our of the house and...

Some Words and A Date Based Upon Trust

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"Trust Opens Up New and Unimaginable Possibilities" Robert C Solomon Danny left this for me this morning-what a guy!  I love him. Disclaimer:  I am no expert on such a subject.  I'm continually striving to trust in the Lord and my spouse.  Also there are serious subjects I mention that I do not have personal experience in.  I have only observed and discussed these topics with people who were successful in rebuilding trust and failed in doing so resulting in divorce. A Great Marriage is built upon trust, right?  Sometimes it's hard to develop trust in someone else, even our spouses.  Maybe we have been let down by them before.  Is it small simple annoyances? They forgot to take the trash out, they are late for dinner, they only contribute to messes and never help clean?  In these cases we must remember is no one is perfect, not even ourselves.   We all make mistakes, overlook needs of our loved ones and fail to con...

A Fifties Do Wop Micro Date- Say that 10x fast

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So I thought it would be fun to throw a fifties party-no wait, I mean date, well same thing practically!  Right?!?  And since I was staying within a theme I had to make dinner too!  Wanna have yourself a 50's date?  Here's how. 1) Make a "Diner" Dinner: We had bacon cheeseburgers with regular and sweet potato fries, aspargus-yes I know not very diner-ish, and mystery soup. A milkshake bouquet, yummy Table Set with a Little Invitation for Danny I have a link for free print ups I used. Danny is enjoying his delish greasy meal One Bacon Cheeseburger with fries and aspargus, coming right up!  Also put in some sweet potato fries cuz I love them.   2) Once the kiddies are off to bed, begin the date with a lil game.  We played clothespin in the bottle-okay mason jar, which is very tricky might I add.  2) 50's has a bunch of great sweets, like candy buttons.  So we wrote love messages-not so origional love messag...

Two Dates,Two Nights in a Row =Delicious

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Table for two please! The real deal, yummy!! Hey There!  Well, we missed a Micro date last week, but  we made up for it with TWO dates this week- both involving food.  With all this crazy planning and preparing for eclectic dates I was feeling a bit burnt out-so we did something easy this week.  Simply put, we held off on supper till after the kids went to sleep and Danny arrived from school.  Yes I whipped up a delectable and healthy meal for two.  A concoction I created (Cut up chicken, garlic, a table spoon of dry salsa mix,  cannelini beans, diced tomatoes, asparagus, chopped peppers and mushrooms)  I don't mean to brag or anything but it was delicious!!  The perfect relaxing setting to chat away and catch up.  It just goes to show that you don't need extravagant themes and games to make a date special.  Simple can be refreshing and enjoyable too.  I could literally eat this eveyday-wonderfully de...

31 More Things to Do in Life

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Spring is here and it is beautiful! Today I turned 31.  I know this may not seem like such a big deal.  31 is still young, right?  But it also means that I'm only nine years away from 40!  I have been reflecting more on these awesome past 31 years.  And I feel I have been oober blessed and was able to accomplish a lot.  What have I been doing these past 31 years? 1) Graduated High School 2) Got An Asosciates Degree 3) Served a 18 month mission for my church http://lds.org 4) Married the Sexiest Man Alive in the DC Temple 4) Bought our first home and then three more. 5) Have two darling girls 6) Begin a mission to write more, so I started a story blog http://onceuponatimestories.blog.com 7) Started this blog 8) Have served in many callings at church that have streched and forced me to grow and learn 9) Paid off over 52,000 in debt. 10) Took a more serious step in intentionally dating my hubby Life has been good to me and I plan on ev...

A French Dinner & Parisian Micro Date

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The votes are in: A trip to Paris is in order!  Without haste, I got to work whippping up a french meal for our family.  One that consists of white fish soup, (a bisque of blended thyme, potatoes, onions white fish-I used talapia- and more!) a scaled down version of Coq Au Vin (chicken, tomatoes, thyme, onions, carrots, wine etc,) , french style green beans, a baugette and french cheese.  Coq A Vin has bacon and carrots in it, which I did not use, due to forgetting to pick these items up at the store :-/    I substitued the wine with sparkling grage juice our french cheese: made in America We don't drink wine, so we went with the next best thing Bon Apetit! What's dinner without dessert?  Chocolate Eclairs anyone? Add caption An evening micro date on a street cafe in France.  It looks exactly like that right?  Well maybe not so, I was going for that look though. The first part of our date-b...